The Truth About High-Net-Worth Matchmaking
I’ve spent over 21 years working with executives, physicians, founders, and other high-earning individuals. And in that time, I’ve watched brilliant, accomplished people hand over their love lives to an algorithm, and get exactly what you expect in return.
You make intentional decisions in every area of your professional life. You hire experts. You hold them accountable for results. Your personal life deserves the same approach.
If you're considering high net worth matchmaking, here's what you need to know before making a decision.
The Myths That Cost People Time and Money
Myth #1: A Bigger Database Means Better Matches
A large dating pool with thousands of matches sounds great until you realize most of the matches are inactive, irrelevant, and don’t match your lifestyle.
My network is invitation-only. Every person in it has been personally evaluated by me. That process can’t be scaled to thousands of people. In my experience, smaller, curated networks consistently outperform large databases when the goal is a real relationship, and not just a date.
Myth #2: All Boutique Matchmakers Deliver the Same Results
Not all boutique services are created equal. The difference is in the details: who’s doing the work, how they’re vetting candidates, and how invested they are in your outcome specifically.
My track record speaks for itself because my process is different. I don’t take on more clients than I can genuinely serve. I don’t outsource the work that matters, and I don't treat introductions as a quota to fill. That’s why 88 to 90% of my clients enter serious relationships within the first year.
What You're Actually Getting
What’s Included
A 90 to 120 minute private consultation with me personally
An active candidate search with my invitation-only network including background checks
Thoughtful introductions, post-date debriefs and honest coaching throughout
Complete confidentiality: no profiles, no digital footprint, NDAs as standard
Red Flags to Watch For
If a firm is doing any of these, walk away:
A capped number of introductions. This signals a database model,where they want to limit the number of women you can meet due to handling too many clients and not a strong enough selection of quality matches..
Pressure to sign immediately. Boutique services have waitlists, not sales deadlines.
Vague answers about their network. A real matchmaker can tell you exactly who’s in their network and why. They will also offer a free search sampling before signing.
Junior staff conducting your consultation. If the named matchmaker isn't in the room at the start, they won’t be involved in your search either.
What Realistic Results Look Like
My clients enter serious relationships within the first year at an 88 to 90% rate. The industry average for boutique services is 60 to 70%. Dating apps deliver meaningful relationships for fewer than 9% of high-net-worth professionals.
The difference is not accidental. It comes down to personal involvement and genuine vetting. Not volume, not a search database and not a recognizable brand name. This is what separates quality high net worth matchmaking from the rest of the industry.
If your time is $500 per hour and you’re spending more than 10 hours a week on apps, the math is straightforward.
Is This the Right Fit?
Ideal for: Successful professionals earning $500K+, executives, investors, physicians, and attorneys who value privacy, discretion, and quality above all else, and who are genuinely ready for a serious relationship.
I work with a small number of clients at a time because that’s the only way to do this well. If you’re ready to bring the same intention to your personal life that you bring to everything else, I'd welcome a conversation.
